Samantha Darby

Samantha is a #girlmom to three little ladies, and a Senior Lifestyle Editor and writer for Romper. She began at Romper in 2015 as a lifestyle writer before the site officially launched, working out of Google docs when Romper didn’t even have a name, and became a lifestyle editor in 2017. In 2022, she was promoted to Senior Lifestyle Editor. Samantha covers a wide variety of topics under the lifestyle umbrella, including parenting, TTC, pregnancy, sex and relationships, and product roundups. She also focuses a lot of her work on baby name coverage, essays about motherhood, children’s books, and holiday content. She loves a good, wholesome, Jennifer Garner-vibes essay.

In 2020, she won a BDG Edit Award for Best Headline for When Grandmas Duel, We All Win, Don’t We?

Before working at Romper, Samantha worked as a freelance writer and had essays published at Motherlode, HelloGiggles, Barnes & Noble Kids, Babble, Work It, Mom!, and The Huffington Post. She also dabbled a bit in digital marketing and writing content for small businesses. She’s currently working on a novel.

On her way to becoming a full-time writer and editor, Samantha was a professional actor in Atlanta, doing stand-up comedy, sketch comedy, theatre, and generally auditioning her heart out. It was good practice for motherhood, where she routinely has to follow the exact scripts her daughters give her while playing Barbies. She lives in Georgia with her husband and her three girls — Alice, Lucy, and Clara.

You can contact Samantha by email at samantha.darby@bustle.com or find her on Twitter or LinkedIn.

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"Institutional Lag" Is One Big Reason Working Moms Are Barely Holding It Together

By Samantha Darby

The school day schedule we use today was built when we had a very different home labor setup, and it *shows.*

Communication Is Key

One Mom Asked Reddit, “How Do You Maintain A Close Relationship With Your Teens?”

By Samantha Darby

And there are some incredibly wholesome tips.

Shhh

“I Hate The Way My Husband Parents Our Daughters” & 33 Other Mom Confessions

By Samantha Darby

It’s time to let it out, y’all.

Windows Down, Obviously

We’ve Got To Talk About Cigarette Mom Rock

By Samantha Darby

Put on your Pond’s cold cream and crank it up.

What's the real question here?

A Mom Is Wondering: How Often Is Everyone’s Partner Going To The Bar?

By Samantha Darby

(But we know this is about more than just “going to the bar,” don’t we?)

Touched The F Out

“Being A SAHM Killed My Sex Drive”

By Samantha Darby

A mom just like us — comparing prices at the grocery store, cheering at the baseball field three times a week, running PTA meetings — shares her sex story, no matter how “boring” or “shocking” it may be.

Help, I Want To Sleep

Why Does All My Anxiety Come In The Middle Of The Night?

By Samantha Darby

Like a sleep paralysis demon, except it's just a steady stream of "what-ifs."

Oh so it's *flexible*

My Love Language Changed After 9 Years Of Marriage & It Actually Makes So Much Sense

By Samantha Darby

You mean after having three kids, my relationship is different?

Solidarity

“I’ve Never Had An Orgasm With My Husband Of 23 Years” & 33 Other Mom Confessions

By Samantha Darby

Moms have a lot to say RN.

Inner Demons, GTFO

I Don't Think My Husband Likes Me. Now What?

By Samantha Darby

Honestly, therapists say you might just need a nap.

Girl Power

27 Baby Girl Names Inspired By Iconic Women In History

By Samantha Darby

If you want a name that feels strong, steady, and brave, this is the list for you.

BFF, LYLAS

The Secret To Seeing Your Friends More As A Busy Parent? Lower The Bar

By Samantha Darby

The trick is to stop overthinking it, and these low-pressure ideas can help.

The Nice Guy > "Alpha"

Love Is Blind Contestants Seem To Have Forgotten Contentment *Is* The Goal

By Samantha Darby

I blame hustle culture for ruining everyone’s idea of actual happiness.

Brain Hacks

How To Trick Your Brain Into Getting Sh*t Done

By Samantha Darby

Because sometimes it really takes some convincing.

Shhh

“My Husband & I Haven’t Had Sex In 2 Months (I Don’t Miss It)” & 42 Other Mom Confessions

By Samantha Darby

Let it out, girl.

Let The Rain Fall Down

Hilary Duff’s New Album Feels Like Lizzie McGuire For Our Mid-Adult Selves

By Samantha Darby

From middle school to midlife, she’s been our guide.

Get it, get it

“Having Scheduled Sex Changed Everything For My Marriage”

By Samantha Darby

A mom just like us — comparing prices at the grocery store, cheering at the baseball field three times a week, running PTA meetings — shares her sex story, no matter how “boring” or “shocking” it may be.

Get In, Loser, We're Going To Old Navy

Old Navy’s Cute New Mix-&-Match Baby Clothing Line Will Hit You Right In The Hormones

By Samantha Darby

Focused on sizes NB to 24 months, Little Navy is heavy on “new mom wandering the baby section” vibes.

Bibbidi Bobbidi BABY

13 Sweet Disney Baby Names That Are Climbing The Popularity Charts

By Samantha Darby

We see you, you tiny Auroras.

Ick Alert

Dear Men Of Love Is Blind, “You’d Be Such A Good Mom” Isn’t The Compliment You Think It Is

By Samantha Darby

Some of us know we’d be fantastic moms — but that doesn’t mean we want to be one (or that we owe it to anyone).